Defiant Spirit Coaching & Counseling
This isn’t simply therapy.
This isn’t years of circling the same old wounds.
This isn’t surface-level coaching to make you feel better.
This is a Defiant Stand.
Defiant Spirit Philosophy
This work is for those who are done playing small. Who are ready to own their pain, their purpose, and their path.
It’s grounded in Logotherapy, Dr. Viktor Frankl’s meaning-centered approach to life, as laid out in his seminal book, Man’s Search for Meaning. At its core is the principle of Response-Ability: your capacity to stop reacting and start responding with clarity, courage, and conviction.
We fuse this philosophy with the Enneagram, a roadmap that reveals your unconscious patterns and helps you wake the hell up!
Together, we blend ancient wisdom with modern frameworks, spiritual depth with psychological clarity—so you can live and lead from a place of meaning, mastery, and momentum.
Together, we will awaken the power of your defiant spirit.
Defiant Spirit Paths
One-on-One Meaning Counseling
For Women & Men
Defiant Spirit Counseling is for anyone—men or women—seeking deeper meaning, greater purpose, and the resilience to face whatever crossroads they’ve come to.
Every session begins with your life—what’s rising, what’s resisting, and what’s required right now. From there, we dive deep into the heart of your experience using core principles from Logotherapy, the Enneagram, and other time-tested psychological and spiritual frameworks.
Counseling packages are month-to-month, weekly or bi-weekly depending on your needs.
One-on-One Men's Coaching
For Men
This isn’t just coaching. It’s a confrontation with you—the real you.
The light and the dark. The superpowers and the shadows.
It’s not just talk. It’s clarity, direction, accountability, and the loving kick in the ass every man needs to rise.
What You Get:
1-on-1 Coaching
Focused, honest, and fiercely committed to your growth. Just you, your coach, and the work that matters.
Personalized Coaching Curriculum
Custom-built from your intake, Enneagram results, and personal debrief—plus a selection of modules that align with your current challenges and future vision.
The Response-Ability Roadmap
After each session, you'll receive a written recap with key insights, breakthroughs, and next steps—so the fire stays lit between calls and the momentum keeps building
This is a 6-month journey—offered through weekly or bi-weekly 1-on-1 coaching sessions, based on your level of commitment and capacity.
The following are some of the more popular modules, but we'll create modules which speak to you.
- KingMe – It’s time to stop living like a prince and rise into the King you were born to be. Authority. Responsibility. Legacy.
- True You – Stop pretending. Show up raw, real, and unapologetically you.
- Be the Author – Reclaim the pen. Rewrite your narrative. Author your life.
- What’s Your Why? – Enough drifting. Discover your why. Live on fire.
- The Wild Lover – Master desire. Embrace masculinity. Bring your full self to love and sex.
- Intimacy & Into-Me-See –This isn’t about fixing her. It’s about feeling her. She doesn’t need your solutions—she needs your presence. Show up with strength, drop the armor, and let her see you too.
- Mask-ulinity – Drop the damn mask. Return to the man in the mirror.
- Midlife Awakening – It’s not a crisis. It’s a call to wake up and rise up.
- Mastering the Monster – Face the darkness. Befriend your demons. Lead anyway.
- The Patriarch’s Path – Heal generational wounds. Become the elder your family needs.
- Carry the Fire – Walk with grief. Rise with grit. Lead with meaning.
- Leave Your Legacy – Don’t just leave something behind. Live it forward.
Next Steps
Schedule A Discovery Call
Spend some time with B on a call to discover if this is the right path for you.
Enneagram Assessment
You’ve got to name the pattern before you can break it.
Enneagram Results & Materials
Explore how you react and respond through the lens of the Enneagram.
You're Ready To Roll
Schedule your first session with B and you are ready to roll!
What B's Tribe Members Say About
Defiant Spirit Coaching
“This work was the turning point. I was successful on paper but hollow inside. B didn’t coddle me—he confronted me. And thank God he did. For the first time in my life, I’m leading with purpose, showing up with fire, and actually feeling what I’ve built. I’m not just living—I’m aligned. And that changes everything.”
“After losing my wife, I wasn’t sure I even wanted to keep going. The grief was suffocating, and nothing anyone said made it better—until I started coaching with B. He didn’t try to fix the pain. He helped me find meaning in it. He helped me fight forward. And now, I’m honoring her memory not with despair—but with purpose.”
"I spent most of my life chasing the checklist—money, success, respect. And I got it. But underneath it all, I felt like a fraud. I was still living by everyone else’s rules, still looking for permission to lead. Working with Dr. B changed everything. Through the King Me work, I didn’t just find my voice—I found my throne. I’m no longer asking for approval. I’m owning my life, setting the tone for my family, and leading from a place of grounded power. I’m finally a King in my own damn kingdom.”
"I came to B already successful. I had the title, the team, and the wins. But I knew I was playing at 70%. There was another level—but I couldn’t access it. Coaching with B unlocked that next gear. It wasn’t about tactics—it was about truth. He helped me confront my shadow, get clear on my core values, and align my leadership from the inside out. Now I lead with confidence, clarity, and purpose—and my team can feel the shift. This is what next-level looks like.”
“When I first reached out to Dr. B, I was stuck in every sense of the word—marriage on autopilot, business draining me, no real sense of direction. I wasn’t broken, but I was bored and burned out. Working with B wasn’t easy. He challenged me, called me out, and made me face the truth I’d been avoiding for years. But it’s exactly what I needed. Now, I lead with clarity, I speak with conviction, and I’m finally living like the man I was meant to be.”
"Joining Man Uprising was powerful—but working directly with Dr. B took it to another level. The group gave me brotherhood, but B gave me backbone. Week after week, he helped me cut through the noise, face the parts of me I was avoiding, and actually do the work. He didn’t just hold space—he held me accountable. I’ve stepped up in my marriage, in my business, and most importantly, in my own damn life. B doesn’t play small, and he won’t let you either. If you’re ready to rise, this is where it starts."
"I asked B what he does. Is he a therapist? A coach? What’s the label? His answer is why I’m working with him. He looked me dead in the eye and said, 'Stu, I walk with my brothers through hell and stay by their side until they get to their heaven—whatever that means to them.' I said, 'I’m in.' And I’ve never looked back. I’m on my way to heaven, with a brother by my side."
Take the First Step Toward Transformation
Let’s Make This Your Turning Point
Download a Free Resource
Discover purpose and self-growth with The Defiant Spirit Journal, featuring daily reflections and insights inspired by Dr. Viktor Frankl’s wisdom.
Join a Program
Explore personalized programs designed for growth.
“I’ve done therapy. I’ve tried coaching. Nothing stuck. B was different. He saw through the masks I didn’t even know I was wearing. Our work together wasn’t about fixing me—it was about remembering who the hell I am. He helped me rediscover my why, confront the patterns keeping me small, and start showing up with power—in my work, my marriage, and my life.”